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Yom Hazikaron 5772

By: Rav David Milston

The Holy of Holies On the eve of Yom HaZikaron 2009, at an annual event held at Binyanei HaUma in Yerushalayim, Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau told a story about the late Rabbi Shlomo Zalman Auerbach : Every day, someone would drive Rabbi Auerbach from his home in the Shaarei Chesed area of Yerushalayim to his Yeshiva in Bayit Vegan. The Rabbi would occasionally ask the driver to pull up for a few moments outside Har Herzl, the burial site of Israel's fallen soldiers, where he would recite Tehillim. Why did he do this? A student once approached him and asked for a timeout from his studies so he could travel north to pray at the graves of the tzaddikim (righteous people). Rabbi Shlomo Zalman looked perplexed but didnt immediately answer. Sensing hesitation from his rabbi, the student elaborated, explaining he had some personal issues to think through and he felt praying by the graves of the righteous would help. Rabbi Auerbach replied that he fully understood what the student wanted to do and why he wanted to do it, but could not understand why he would travel four hours to pray by the graves of a few tzaddikim when there were thousands of them buried on Har Herzl, just five minutes from the yeshiva! It is with such awe and humility that we speak of the holy individuals who have given their lives for the sake of their beliefs and their people. Our rabbis tell us there is a special place reserved in the Heavens for those who give up all they have for the sake of Am Yisrael. We remember those who have fallen in the unending battle for our homeland, eternally humbled by their bravery and ever grateful for their sacrifice. It is largely thanks to them that we can visit and live freely in Israel today. We obviously see the hand of the Almighty in the countrys miraculous establishment and existence but He helps those who help themselves (see Massechet Yoma 38b ; see also Rashi, Mishlei 16:9) So on this solemn day 24 hours before the commencement of the annual national celebrations of our return to Zion we bow our heads in honor of our fallen heroes. Their sacrifice is the purest form of giving that exists. Although during our brief stay in this world we often manage to accumulate wealth and possessions, at least in our sub-conscious we know that none of our material gains remain with us eternally, as King David so poignantly reminds us: Do not fret when a man gains wealth, when the wealth of his house is increased, for when he dies he shall carry nothing away. His wealth shall not go down with him. Tehillim 49:17-18 -, - -, . , - . :- We leave our possessions behind when we pass on to the next world, indeed even our bodies are not really ours for keeps. When we die, they return to the earth and our soul our only lasting asset is finally free to rise to the Heavens. Genuine giving is giving what is truly ours to give. In Hebrew, the word for charity is tzedaka, a derivate of the word tzedek justice. Charity is not really a kindness of the highest degree; in truth it is to be expected. After all, God gave us all we have so it is not really ours alone. To give charity is the just and correct thing to do; we are expected to share with others that which God has given to us. Chesed is a different matter altogether. Loving kindness is doing above and beyond the expected, it is a pure act of giving an act of love. Our soul, the truest expression of who we are, comes down to earth to define and refine itself. Mesirut nefesh (self-sacrifice) is literally to be understood as voluntarily giving of ourselves, our inner selves, our actual being. Mesirut nefesh is a statement of pure giving for the sake of others and for the sake of God. We receive nothing in return, and our sacrifice is enormous. So when a soldier fighting for the survival of his people, in protection of his comrades or defending the Jewish right to live and believe knowingly hands his soul back to the Creator, it is surely to be considered the truest form of giving, the purest sacrifice. When he puts his country before himself, he emulates the Almighty, the ultimate Giver. No one can equal such a level of giving. He declares himself to be a soul made in the image of God! Perhaps this was what Rabbi Auerbach was referring to when he advised his student to pray by the graves of the soldiers buried on Mount Herzl. These men and women gave the only true thing they own their lives, so we could continue to live in peace in our homeland. Surely the least we can do for these holy people is to dedicate one day a year to their memory! After all, the day was not set aside for their families. They have to bear the loss every day of the year. Yom HaZikaron was established so that we, the entire nation, can express our perpetual gratitude for their everlasting sacrifice. It is interesting to note our custom to recite the Yizkor prayer in memory of family members who have passed away on Pesach, Shavuot, Yom Kippur and Shemini Atzeret. Many communities also add memorial prayers for Israeli soldiers and Holocaust victims. Why combine sadness and sorrow with our festive celebrations? One possible reason is that Yizkor allows us to express that eternal void in our lives. Although we have enjoyed our festivals, our celebration will never be the same without our loved ones. However, unlike Yizkor, Yom HaZikaron was not instituted as part of Yom HaAtzmaut but rather as a separate day preceding the Independence celebrations. Even though those who initially established the day may not have had this idea in mind, the differing order of events is more than relevant. Yizkor helps us reflect on the people who are no longer with us, and is thus placed at the conclusion of our festive celebrations. Yom HaZikaron, however is there to remind us that were it not for the grace of Heaven and the sacrifice of our brothers and sisters, Yom HaAtzmaut wouldn't exist at all hence this day of remembrance must precede the celebrations. Anyone who has experienced the twilight zone between Yom HaZikaron and Yom Ha'atzmaut will have noted the mixed emotions as we move from "evel" (mourning) to yom tov" (festivities). Yet these two seemingly opposite days are inextricably connected. You could not have one without the other for this is the destiny of the Jew-destruction and renewal; despair and hope. Because our soldiers fell in defense of the State of Israel, every Jew in the world benefits from their sacrifice. Consequently, no Jew in the world should fail to honor and remember them. Moreover, when the Knesset officially added the memory of Israels terror victims to this day, they issued a fundamental message about Am Yisrael in Eretz Yisrael. Just as Israel could not exist without the heroic dedication of its soldiers, it cannot survive without the stubborn courage of every one of its citizens. Those who have been here for generations and those who have chosen to come home and realize the ultimate Jewish dream of redemption. Those who have left comfortable lives in the Diaspora and those who fled persecution and suffering in Arab lands. They are all Gods soldiers. If every Jew chose to wait in the Diaspora until it was safe to return or until the financial situation improved, we would be sitting in Exile forever. So it is eminently fitting that on a day of remembrance for our fallen soldiers we also pay our respects to the men, women and children who have been brutally deprived of life just because they wanted to be a part of the Jewish dream of Shivat Tzion (return to Zion). To be a Yehudi, to be a Jew, is synonymous with awareness, appreciation and responsibility. The word Yehudi is connected to the word lehodot which means both to give thanks and to admit, to take responsibility. Therefore, before we celebrate our independence and thank God for our country, it is crucial to first take a day to remember, honor and thank those holy souls who took the ultimate responsibility to make it all possible. May their memories be blessed.


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